We attract into our life a reflection of what’s going on
inside of us. So if you’re feeling
sad, angry or restricted because
of your weight, health, job, or past relationships, then you will attract
someone into your life who is also sad or angry. If you had an issue with one
of your parents, you will also attract a person with the same issue into your
life so you can continue to heal that relationship. Let’s say, for example, that your father abandoned you. This means that you could attract a
partner who is afraid of commitment.
If your mother was angry and always yelling, you might attract a partner
with a terrible temper. So before you focus on attracting new love into your
life, it’s important to do some good work on yourself first. Once you’ve
accomplished these tasks, you’re ready to attract the right love into your
life!
1) THE LIST
This is an old, tried and true, method that really works IF
you give it the time and attention it deserves. Take out a piece of paper and write on it, “My New Love Is:”
and then write a list of everything you want in your partner. List all the
physical, emotional, spiritual, financial, and personality traits that are
important to you. Be very careful
with your list because it works.
Once you’re done, hang it up in a place where you’ll see it
often – the bathroom mirror or refrigerator -- are good options. Then every morning and every evening
read the list affirming in your heart that you’re bringing new love into your
life.
2) CRYSTAL LOVE GRID
Create a crystal grid to attract love into your life. Simply write an affirmation on a piece
of paper such as “the right love comes to me right now” and place a rose quartz
on top of that. It’s best if this
center stone is a pyramid or obelisk shaped stone so that it send the energy of
your affirmation up into the universe.
Surround this center stone with pink stones (any variety will do) in a
heart shape. Keep this grid out
where you can see it every day knowing and affirming that you are attracting
your new love into your life.
If you’re in a new relationship and you’re hopeful it will
grow into something more, write an affirmation such as “my relationship grows
in love, respect, passion and commitment every day” and place it under a
plant. Place a pink stone in the
plant and every time you look at the plant affirm to yourself that your new
relationship is growing in love.
3) LETTING GO OF THE PAST
In order to invite in new love, you must let go of old
relationships. The emotions of
anger, resentment, guilt and mistrust are very powerful, and they set up
barriers in our auric field that tell potential new partners “stay away.” In
addition to therapy and good friends, there are some great metaphysical
techniques you can use to let go of a painful past relationship once and for
all.
For starters, gather up everything your ex gave you –
letters, gifts, cards. If none of
it is meaningful or valuable to you, then donate the gifts and throw away the
letters. If you’d like to hold on to these things because they have sentimental
value, then box it up and tie it with a black ribbon. Black is grounding and protective.
Next, write a letter to your ex. This is a letter he/she will never see, so really pour your
heart into the letter. Get out all
your regrets, dashed hopes, anger, guilt and sadness. Once you’re done, you can
either rip up the letter, bury it, or safely burn it in an oven proof bowl.
4) ACCEPTING LOVE INTO YOUR LIFE
The best way to attract new love into you life is by loving
yourself. Do something fun for
yourself every day – whether it’s running a hot bath, treating yourself to a
manicure or coffee with a friend – make sure you are focusing on being kind to
yourself. When you catch yourself
being self-critical, say, “cancel, cancel” and think of something great about
yourself. Learn to accept
compliments. Be gentle to your soul.
Feel positive about your future.
So if you’re single and looking for love, open your heart to
new experiences. Expect, no,
demand happiness and soon you’ll be celebrating with a new love by your side.
