I received an email from a woman who's been unemployed for over a year. She said she's been applying all the principles of manifesting and trying to use the law of attraction to attract a new job, but no job. This is a frustrating experience, but the woman said she's only applying for jobs that are similar in compensation to her previous job. This is limited thinking. If you put out limited thinking, you're going to get limited thinking in return.
This is a crappy economy, but it doesn't mean the law of attraction can't work for you. When I finished school, I remember my dad said, "Send out 100 resumes." I said, "But there aren't 100 teaching jobs out there in this whole state." But he explained that if I put the energy out there to one and all, I'd receive a job. And he was right! I received two job offers that summer.
When I moved to a different state, however, the situation wasn't as positive, and teaching jobs were very difficult to come by. So I wrote for our city's newspaper and waitressed at my sister's restaurant at night. Within a year, I had the teaching job I'd always wanted.
On summers off, if I couldn't find a job, I'd create one. One summer, I baked cookies for local coffee shops. I printed out business cards that read The Cookie Lady, received approval from the health department, and baked up boxes of cookies for area coffee shops to try. Within a week, I had contracts with three coffee shops. Another summer, I tutored students and did freelance writing. One summer I assisted a real estate magazine editor.
Ask a teacher about summer jobs, and you'll get a lot of funny stories. One of my friends had the grand job of gluing bows on bras at a local factory. Another teacher friend of mine sewed costumes for pets. Where there's a will, there's a way. Put the energy out there and it will come back to you.
The law of attraction works like karma. Whatever you put out -- in thought, act or deed -- comes back to you threefold. If you're always complaining, gossiping and whining, guess what you're going to receive? If you believe the economy will keep you from making more money, you're sending out a literal instruction to the universe that reads: I'm not ready to receive.
If you want a job, a relationship, a new health regimen, take actions in that direction. And throughout, don't forget to give abundantly and with confidence in little and small ways. Soon, you'll be receiving that job or relationship of your dreams.
Here's what 20th century mystic Flower Newhouse had to say about the law of attraction:
"Supply is related to giving. We give something -- labor, time, unselfish love, or moral assistance -- and the great law of compensation repays us with the Good we have earned and we must give more of ourselves to the world's need. To master unemployment, we should examine ourselves to see where in the past we have worked grudgingly. Steadiness of work shall be ours to the degree that we give service willingly and in love of God."
And since today is the feast day of St. Therese the Little Flower, it's fitting to mention that we can give back in small ways such as a smile to a stranger, returning a cart we find left in the parking lot, calling a friend who's having a tough week and just listening, giving a nice waitperson an extra tip. Be creative and discover the small and large ways you can give to the circle of abundance. Before you know it, you'll be receiving not only a job but a better appreciation for your life.
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Friday, September 24, 2010
Opening to Receive
I apologize for the lack of blogs recently, but I've been crazy busy. I'm sure many of you know how difficult it is to balance home, work and family. Now I'm looking forward to the cool, Fall days that surely lay ahead.
I've had a lovely summer meeting clients old and new and have received the loveliest gifts! One client gave me an angel figurine that I adore. Another woman knitted me a beautiful meditation shawl that I can't wait to use as soon as the weather turns a bit chillier. An artist painted me a spectacular rendition of a waterfall that now hangs in my office. Just this week a client brought me a brass bowl brimming with crystals she collected while living in Saudi Arabia in the 60's. Here's where the topic of the blog post comes in. My response is always gratitude touched with a tang of guilt. I often say, "You didn't have to do this." Or, "This is too much." And sometimes, I'm embarrassed to admit, I'll say, "Can I give you something in return?"
Yes, folks, it's true. I have a problem with receiving. I'm great with giving, but when I receive gifts and unexpected moments of receiving, I feel an imbalance is occurring and I want to correct it. So I bought a great book by Catherine Ponder called Open Your Mind to Receive. In it, she outlines a three step process to receiving your good:
1) She believes we all need to tithe 10 % of our income. She says this shows faith in God that all our good will be supplied to us as long as we continue to contribute to the circle of abundance. For me, I choose to tithe each week 5% to my church and 5 % to a charity, person or event that needs help.
2) She believes we need to give to ourselves. Each day, try to find something comforting you can do for yourself -- a hot bath, a nice run, a massage, a manicure, an hour in a book store, a movie.
3) Give to others. Ponder says it's important to give abundantly of our time, talent, and money to others who need us.
This, she says, will begin to lay the foundation for a heart that's ready to receive.
My affirmation today is: I receive all my good today. All my good is coming to me now with speed and ease.
I've had a lovely summer meeting clients old and new and have received the loveliest gifts! One client gave me an angel figurine that I adore. Another woman knitted me a beautiful meditation shawl that I can't wait to use as soon as the weather turns a bit chillier. An artist painted me a spectacular rendition of a waterfall that now hangs in my office. Just this week a client brought me a brass bowl brimming with crystals she collected while living in Saudi Arabia in the 60's. Here's where the topic of the blog post comes in. My response is always gratitude touched with a tang of guilt. I often say, "You didn't have to do this." Or, "This is too much." And sometimes, I'm embarrassed to admit, I'll say, "Can I give you something in return?"
Yes, folks, it's true. I have a problem with receiving. I'm great with giving, but when I receive gifts and unexpected moments of receiving, I feel an imbalance is occurring and I want to correct it. So I bought a great book by Catherine Ponder called Open Your Mind to Receive. In it, she outlines a three step process to receiving your good:
1) She believes we all need to tithe 10 % of our income. She says this shows faith in God that all our good will be supplied to us as long as we continue to contribute to the circle of abundance. For me, I choose to tithe each week 5% to my church and 5 % to a charity, person or event that needs help.
2) She believes we need to give to ourselves. Each day, try to find something comforting you can do for yourself -- a hot bath, a nice run, a massage, a manicure, an hour in a book store, a movie.
3) Give to others. Ponder says it's important to give abundantly of our time, talent, and money to others who need us.
This, she says, will begin to lay the foundation for a heart that's ready to receive.
My affirmation today is: I receive all my good today. All my good is coming to me now with speed and ease.
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